Showing posts with label CHOOSE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label CHOOSE. Show all posts

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Allotting my Budget

brings me gratitude.
So with the new year, new focus comes into play. I'm not one for resolutions.. but I thought it was time to put a budget together. Don't get me wrong. I do have savings and RSP's, investments and a mortgage but I'm a bit embarrassed to say that I've never done an actual budget based on my income.
I knew my laptop had to have a program on it for budgeting so I looked it up and filled it in.
I have to say I was shocked at how much of my income is put towards my monthly expenses - the mortgage, property tax, maintenance fees, car payments, car, life and home insurance, cable, internet, cell phone, groceries. Oie vae!
Now this is all a choice. We wanted to purchase a condo a few years ago instead of paying rent and someone else's mortgage, and after many years of wanting a car but not needing a car we decided it was time to purchase and of course the cell phone, internet and cable are all luxuries that we choose to indulge in.
But then I thought about it. I thought about all of the things that are not included in those monthly expenses... things like hanging out with Lola, and hugs from my husband, and walks by the lake, and hanging out with family and friends. And it got me thinking even more as to what my monthly expenses go towards... a home for my myself and my husband, warm showers, the option to turn the heat up if I'm cold, all the drinking water I need, lots of books to read,
too many clothes...
and shoes to choose from,
the option to use the building pool or exercise room..., freedom to drive where we'd like, taking a bike ride, the internet to learn about anything that I choose, a number of movies to watch, tons of music to listen to, limitless meals to try making from the countless cook books the hubby has,
not to mention concerts, travelling and memorable experiences! I could go on and on and on...
I enjoyed this. I enjoyed not only clarifying where my hard earned earnings go to but also taking another look at what I so have and appreciating all of it!
Thank you!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Just happy...

...brings me gratitude.
As previously mentioned I was a little off this summer.
I don't feel ill will towards it... I accept it as is and am happy to move on.
I am just happy now.
Happy to be enjoying work. Happy to have work!...
Happy when I have a day off. Or happy when I have an evening with My Love.
Happy that we have so much to look forward to...
Happy about the amazing experiences we have had recently..
and so many more to look forward to...

and in honor of Gandhi, on the anniversary of his birth... my favourite quote:
Be the change you want to see in the world.
Love.
Thank you!

Saturday, July 18, 2009

My Saturday Morning Farmer's Market Run

brings me gratitude!

We all know that eating lots of fruit and vegetables is great for our health but I think we forget this in the busyness of our lives. 
After some health issues (not majorly serious but enough for us to shake us up) we started seeing a naturopathic doctor 
and 'remembered' how important diet is to our health.
Now, don't get me wrong I absolutely love to indulge in all kinds of food (see post below), I am married to a Chef afterall and my office is located in one of the busiest kitchens in the city.   But I do not believe in depriving oneself.  What I do believe is that moderation is key and the fact that we do choose our health.
My husband works early now so my new Saturday ritual is to go to the farmer's market at St. Lawrence and purchase organic (whenever possible) and local foods.  The end result is absolutely delicious food, while supporting our local farmers (90% of the purchase goes directly back to them as opposed to big corporations), and feeding our bodies the nutrients that it needs for optimum health.  
Our food has never tasted better and it FEELS SO GOOD!

Friday, July 3, 2009

Choosing gratitude makes me happy


I have a lot to be grateful for... a gorgeous, loving husband, a condo to call our home, a great job and blessed of all, the luxury to choose to be happy, grateful, generous and healthy.  As with many people we have gone through a lot of changes in the last few months and we have learned sooo much!  The best lessons we've learned thus far are 1. Be grateful for what you have.  2.  Realize that you don't need a lot of stuff to be happy.  3.  Choose your happiness.  Choose your health.  Choose your life.
Oh joy!