Showing posts with label LEARN. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LEARN. Show all posts

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Allotting my Budget

brings me gratitude.
So with the new year, new focus comes into play. I'm not one for resolutions.. but I thought it was time to put a budget together. Don't get me wrong. I do have savings and RSP's, investments and a mortgage but I'm a bit embarrassed to say that I've never done an actual budget based on my income.
I knew my laptop had to have a program on it for budgeting so I looked it up and filled it in.
I have to say I was shocked at how much of my income is put towards my monthly expenses - the mortgage, property tax, maintenance fees, car payments, car, life and home insurance, cable, internet, cell phone, groceries. Oie vae!
Now this is all a choice. We wanted to purchase a condo a few years ago instead of paying rent and someone else's mortgage, and after many years of wanting a car but not needing a car we decided it was time to purchase and of course the cell phone, internet and cable are all luxuries that we choose to indulge in.
But then I thought about it. I thought about all of the things that are not included in those monthly expenses... things like hanging out with Lola, and hugs from my husband, and walks by the lake, and hanging out with family and friends. And it got me thinking even more as to what my monthly expenses go towards... a home for my myself and my husband, warm showers, the option to turn the heat up if I'm cold, all the drinking water I need, lots of books to read,
too many clothes...
and shoes to choose from,
the option to use the building pool or exercise room..., freedom to drive where we'd like, taking a bike ride, the internet to learn about anything that I choose, a number of movies to watch, tons of music to listen to, limitless meals to try making from the countless cook books the hubby has,
not to mention concerts, travelling and memorable experiences! I could go on and on and on...
I enjoyed this. I enjoyed not only clarifying where my hard earned earnings go to but also taking another look at what I so have and appreciating all of it!
Thank you!

Thursday, December 31, 2009

2009

brings me so much gratitude!
I was hoping to post this blog on the 31st but because 2009 was such a significant year for me I found it difficult to articulate.
But here it is...
While I have learned to live in the present and try to practise it, I do enjoy the end of the year to reflect on what I've learned and where I have moved forward.
2009 had many lessons. Many large and some small, but all significant...
Being grateful is a big one... learning about the mind-body connection is huge, living in the present is a wonderful one,
realizing the insignificance of physical things and zero attachment to outcome is incredible, and choosing to live a more inspired life has changed my life! Learning to forgive... other people and myself has released a lot crap from my life,
learning that my past does not define me and that my thoughts and beliefs create my present and my future has been monumental...
Learning more about my capacity for love and creating my reality have brought on many wonderful experiences!
The journey in 2009 has brought some peace to my life... peace that I had been searching for, for many years,

and that journey is mine to choose...

2009 was absolutely divine!
Thank you!